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PostPosted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 5:15 pm    Post subject: Anyone in limbo? Reply with quote

So DH and I have not been as careful as we have in the past on the B/C thing. Yet we haven't given it a REAL try either. Anytime we aren't careful I literally get up immediately afterwards to ensure the chance is low we don't conceive. And with him being medically sterile, at least in the past...it has always been important I stay put...but much as I want another child...I just can't bring myself to seriously try! My DH wants us to seriously try...since trying to adopt through foster care has brought no success. But because of my heart issue and thyroid, not to mention my age...makes me think of all the things I will have to endure to be pregnant not to mention the postpartum period! UGH!
I know I will at some point try seriously ONE month, I think. I am pretty sure I want another child...if I were healthy. But today, I am still wondering if I REALLY want to go through it all AGAIN because of my health. Every year that passes, I think...I am still in limbo and am getting to the point...I just want to move on irregardless. It is getting so old thinking about this and realizing...gee had I just done it last year...I would have a 3rd and be able to move on FINALLY! UGH!

For any of you that ARE healthy.....I'd tell you to go for it. So wish I could jump into things without KNOWING I am committing health disaster for myself! You'd think that would make my decision easier....nope!
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