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Does the idea of telling anyone make you nervous?

 
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 9:12 pm    Post subject: Does the idea of telling anyone make you nervous? Reply with quote

First, let me say that I have AMAZING in-laws. This is wonderful as my mom lost her battle with cancer two weeks after my first child was born. My in-laws are so supportive of our two kids and really help us out when we need a sitter, some advice, a night out, or even milk! (They live less than a mile away...)

BUT they chose to have only one child. They think that having more kids means less for everyone. And my FIL especially has made it quite clear that we'd be insane to have any more kids. I think this is part of the reason that it was so hard for my DH to agree to a third child.

I KNOW that they would love another baby once he or she arrived, but I can't help but imagine the initial shock (and even disappointment???) of hearing that we're expecting another little one. (We have a girl and a boy and plan to TTC in June.) Has anyone else been through this? Any advice?
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