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Scared of moving on OR really wanting a third

 
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carmjoemom
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 1:17 pm    Post subject: Scared of moving on OR really wanting a third Reply with quote

I have a few more months before TTC ... But I'm trying to dig deep inside of myself to figure out the answer to this question. Do I truly want a third child to raise, love, and be ours OR am I just doing it because I'm petrified to be "done" and move on to the next chapter of our life. How do you figure out the answer to that question? I really don't know the answer. I'm trying to dig, dig and dig some more but I don't have an answer.

Any advice???
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 6:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know. :? But if you figure out how to sort that out, let me know, will you? I'm wondering if the answer may be a bit easier to tease out if I DO move on, go back to work, have my girls grow a little older so they're both in school doing their thing and I have my own thing going on, but then I worry that if I go that way, it will be "too late" to head back and start all over again, either from a fertility standoint or just an emotional one. What I'm trying to tell myself is that when and if I feel ready, I'll know and we'll do it. If I never feel ready, then I guess there is our answer right there.

But all that logical thinking doesn't help me get to sleep in the middle of the night when I can't shut my brain off. :wink:
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