COLUMNS On Having Three Kids   The Family Bathroom   Eight Months Later   Surviving Bad Days with Coffee, Alcohol, Play-Doh, and TV Like a Train Wreck (In a Good Way)   Little Kiwis   Deciding to Have Three Kids   Christmas Wishes from Mama   SOME OF THE OTHER STUFF I'VE WRITTEN The Practical Napper: Tips, Facts, and Quotes for the Avidly Recumbent   (A wee little gift book for those who love naps) A Thousand Meters   (The Monthly) Analyzing Ben (Literary Mama) Wake Up and Smell the Martinis: A review of The Three-Martini Playdate (Literary Mama) Why Kids Talk to Themselves (Wondertime Magazine)